Intro
For as long as I can remember, I have been an avid believer in "Do as I say, not as I do." I tell my friends to: 1. Set boundaries with others. Don't be afraid to say "no". 2. You don't need a man to be happy. Find happiness in yourself. 3. Love yourself. Who cares what others think? I then turn around and do exactly what I have told others not to do: 1. People please and agree to do things for others (who do not return the favor) when I don't have the time, energy, or fiscal resources. 2. Find a guy prior to completely cutting off a relationship. I haven't been single for more than a few weeks since I was 15 years old. I hop from one long term relationship to the next out of the fear of being alone. 3. Hating every inch of my body: hair, face, eyes, nose, teeth, lips, gums, eyebrows, boobs, belly, arms, ass, thighs, ankles, feet, toes, fingers... I even recently have been really hating my fingernails. "But you seem so strong so strong and